Once again, I'm inspired by the words of an old, dead theologian; the words of John Calvin.
"For where do all injuries come from, but from this--that each person is too tenacious of her or his own rights, that is, each is too ready to consult his or her own convenience to the disadvantage of others? Almost all are so blinded by a wicked love of themselves that, even in the worst causes, the flatter themselves that they are in the right."
This is in a writing about letting go of our so-called "rights."
More later...I have to go.